I have deadlines. That may stress some people out. But for me, it actually removed a lot of the stress I was feeling about the wedding.
Thanks to my fantastic wedding coordinator, I have a list of EXACTLY what I need to do. And a date of when I should have it done by (or at least mostly done).
Direction. With a defined timeline.
This is what I needed. I still feel incredibly daunted by the sheer amount of stuff I need to accomplish while working a full-time job, but I feel way more prepared to handle it all, and get it all done.
And I can already feel my blood pressure getting a little lower. Because I have deadlines. Crazy I know. But it's true.